Request for Eric and his Family
Thank you to all of you who have been praying and throwing encouragement and support my way this past week. Now I have a mission for you that I hope you will want to participate in.
Eric and his family are now all very new at this Christ follower thing…obviously. Although we have passed on Bibles and some other books to help get them started, I think it would be amazing encouragement for them to hear from all the people who have been praying for them this past week.
What I would like for you to do is to ask the Lord to give you a Scripture or verse that has really encouraged you during your walk with the Lord, tell what it means to you and why, and write a short note of encouragement, support, prayer, etc. What a better way for this family to feel loved by the body of Christ. And I think it will continue to foster a desire for them to continue pursuing the Lord after 30 years of running. We all know that it is so much easier to fall back into old habits after the Lord does a work in our lives…because Satan is on the prowl to destroy this work that has begun.
If you would be willing to do this, you can email them to me at sarahweber@crccsc.org, or drop them on my desk at the office. I hope to be able to send them “care” packages with these notes over the next few weeks.
Thank you, in advance, for taking some time out to encourage this new family in Christ. I know it will mean a lot to them! (It’s easy for them to accept that we had people praying for them, but what would it be like if all that have been, made themselves known to this family) WOW!! If you have any questions, let me know. Love you all!
Bringing In the Harvest, Eric Update #4
There are no words to describe the awesomeness of our God! No words come close. Nothing I could speak out could compare to the magnificence of what the Lord has done in the hearts and lives of our family this weekend. Thank you, thank you, thank you for your prayers.
My mom and I have spoken every day since we found out about Eric on Wednesday. We have been praying that the Lord would clearly communicate to us what our mission was to be. During some time of prayer on Friday afternoon the Lord kept giving me the number “3″. Not understanding, I continued to press in until the Lord said, “3 will hear my message, and 3 will respond into salvation and reconciliation with me.” This was then confirmed by several others, so this became my “banner” over the weekend to come. I shared this with my mom and we chose to claim this as truth. We were officially on a mission.
My mom (Cheryl), my aunt (Paula), and myself left Spartanburg to head to Duke University Hospital early on Saturday morning. On the ride up, we spent much time in prayer and asking the Lord to use us in such a way that there was no way possible that the glory could be given to us, but that all the glory and honor would go to God. We asked the Lord to help us to speak the words He would have us say, to be living examples of Christ, and to be bold. When we got to the hospital we were AMAZED at what we were seeing! Eric was sitting in a chair, he was awake, talking, responding, and appeared as though there was nothing wrong with him other than being tired. Before I go any further, let me remind you of why this is such a miracle. On Tuesday night Eric attempted suicide. He took over 400 pills intentionally. It wasn’t something that was spontaneous, because he took the time to grind up some of the pills. By the time he got into the ER and while he was there, he had coded 7 times, and 7 times the doctors and nurses were able to get his heart beating again. Long story short, Eric had tubes down his throat, in his nose, IVs everywhere, hooked up to a bunch of machines, life support, respirators, the works. The doctors said that they couldn’t anticipate anything more than 5 minutes at a time. This was how bad he was. Over the course of the weekend several of the doctors who had worked on Eric came by to see him because they couldn’t believe he was still alive. They didn’t believe that this was the same Eric Leicht they had just known was going to die. Every one of them continued to say that Eric was a miracle. That there was no human way possible for him to be alive. Today, Eric shows no signs of any problems with his brain or mental functioning. He shows no signs of any physical problems (he has already been released from physical therapy because he can stand and walk on his own). His kidneys and other organs are now functioning properly. Other than extreme fatigue, you would never have known he was clinically dead 7 times on Tuesday night. The Lord worked his first miracle….Eric’s life.
Our family has been praying for this part of our family for years. They have been so far from God for the majority of their lives. All of us (my family included) had sort of cut ourselves off from one another. My mom, aunt, and myself knew that we were there for a purpose. We knew that it was the time for our prayers to be answered. Just as Eric had been saved for a purpose, we were there for the purpose of being vessels for the Lord, trusting that the 3 God had promised would choose salvation and reconciliation. So on Saturday we spent most of the day just building relationship with them again. We kept reminding them of how much God loved them, and that there was a divine purpose that Eric was still alive. We left late on Saturday and before we did, we asked if we could circle up and just pray over the family. It was in that moment that the Lord really prepared Rich (my uncle). He was so tender and loving, and just broken over his son and their relationship. I feel like this was the turning point for Rich. So, we left, knowing and trusting that the Lord was going to call 3 into salvation with him on Sunday. They were ripe for the Lord.
On Sunday we got to the hospital around 10:30. The Lord had given us such confirmation as we spent time with him that morning that we were to be bold, to not be fearful, but to speak words of truth. He has sent us to scripture after scripture to encourage us and to use to encourage Eric. We asked the Lord to open a door for us so that we would know when the time was right to share with them the good news of Jesus Christ. We spent most of the morning encouraging them and letting them talk about where they were and how they were feeling. Around noon, Brian (Eric’s brother) and Shane (Eric’s best friend) came to visit. Shane is a new believer, he accepted Christ into his heart 4 months ago. He wasn’t sure how to tell Eric about the Lord and had been praying for Eric for awhile. He was the catalyst that shifted everything. All of us were just sitting around and talking and all of a sudden Shane took Eric’s hand in his and said, “Eric, you know I’ve got your back. But you need to go to church, you need God.” That was the very door we had been waiting for. My mom and I began to talk about how the Lord had brought us out of our own pits of sin and desperation. How the Lord can take something painful and broken, and how he can piece it back together again and make it new. We talked of how the Lord had changed our lives. We reminded him that the Lord created him and made him unique and special, and how the Lord had saved him for a purpose. We reminded him of all the people who had claimed that he was miracle. And that he couldn’t waste the life that had been returned to him by the Sovereign hand of our God who loves him so much. We began to share about how God had sent his only son to earth to live as we do, to experience the same pain and hurts we live with, and then to die in the cruelest way imaginable. That in those moments, Jesus took on the weight of our sin, that by Jesus’ death and resurrection that he now had a way back to the Father. That he had a way to be forgiven of his sin and to live anew. My mom then took Eric’s hands and asked him point-blank, “Do you want to accept Jesus into your life as your Savior?” Without hesitation his answer was “YES!” Now keep in mind, we were still believing for 3, so my mom then said, “I know that there are some of you in this room who need to know Jesus as your Savior. I am going to pray a simple prayer, and if you are ready to do that, I want you to either out loud or in your heart, pray this to the Lord.” She then led a sweet prayer of forgiveness, repentance, and acceptance of Jesus as Savior. After the prayer had ended Eric grabbed my mom into this clinging hug and just cried. HALLELUJAH!!!!! It was almost as if he was purging his soul of all the pain of his past. He literally has been healed emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. What more could we have asked for!!!! In excitement and praise we just prayed thanksgiving to the Lord for what was lost, had been found. All the while, we continued to pray that the Lord would bring forth the other 2. A few moments later, the nurses came to get Eric so that they could get a chest X-Ray, they believed he was getting pneumonia. We walked out of the hospital room. During this time, my mom grabbed onto Rich and just held tight to him. As they cried together my mom asked him, “Rich, did you ask Jesus into your heart? If you haven’t, you know that you need the Lord. He has already begun a work in you, we’ve all seen the changes these last two days.” And as he weeped, Rich answered, “Yes, Cheryl, I asked Jesus to be my Savior when you were praying.” Paula and I immediately grinned from ear to ear and thanked the Lord that another lost sheep had been brought back to the Shepherd. We laid hands on him and just prayed for his own pain, his own healing. What an amazing work the Lord has already begun. This seemingly tough, hard man was tender and compassionate and the worries and stresses and irritations of the past were no longer important…only his family was.
At that point my mom and I just looked at one another and continued to ask the Lord to show us who the third was to be and asked the Lord to give us wisdom to know what to say and how to proceed. We didn’t want to take matters in our own hands, we were just waiting for the Lord and trusting that he would keep his promise of 3. So we went down to the cafe to eat some lunch. We sat with Nancy, Paula, Shane, and Brian and just talked about the awesomeness of God’s work throughout this past week. We left our Bibles with this family, in hopes that they would begin on the right foot. By believing the word of the Lord as their help. I went into the bookstore and located some awesome books to help get this family started. After 30+ years of running from the Lord, they definitely would need a place to begin. After all this we headed back to Eric’s room and asked him if he would mind if we just read some Scriptures together. As we started reading verses in the Psalms, we began sharing with him about David. How he was called “a man after God’s own heart” and yet here he was crying out to the Lord feeling abandoned and alone, he sinned (murder, adultery, etc.) and yet he was raised up by the Lord to be the King over Israel. We wanted to keep reminding them that having Jesus as your Savior doesn’t make the world better. That they will still sin and have problems, but that there is a forgiveness and forgetness that is found in the Lord. That the Lord would equip them with what they needed for each day to come.
We knew that we were going to have to leave soon, so mom and I just kept asking the Lord to show us what to do next. The Lord responded with…just wait. As we were getting ready to leave, the family circled together, held hands, and were about to pray. We felt like Rich needed to tell his son of the decision he had made to also ask the Lord into his heart. Here is a father and son who have been estranged and angry at one another for so long. In complete brokenness and vulnerability, Rich leaned dow, grabbed his son’s hands, started weeping, and said, “Eric, I love you, and I am on this journey with you because I asked Jesus into my heart too. We’re going to change together, we’re going to church..” He then broke off because Eric had begun to weep and they just clung to one another. It was one of the most tender moments we had experienced. I looked at my mom and we continued to pray that the Lord would call his third. And sure enough within a few moments, my aunt Nancy, held Eric’s hand and said, “We’ll all be doing this together, because I accepted Jesus too.” I turned to my mom, unable to speak, held up 3 fingers. We immediately set about praising the Lord in word and song! HALLELUJAH!
We have finally seen our entire family come full circle into the family of God. My mom has been praying for 30 years to see that side of the family restored to the Lord. As an adult, I’ve chosen to persist in prayer that we would see this come to fruition as well. My, how the Lord answers prayer. This had absolutely NOTHING to go with anything we did, and EVERYTHING to do with what the Lord did. Everyone on that side of the family are now believers in Christ. WOW! What an amazing God we have! He is truly the answer to our prayers, the sustainer and redeemer of our lives, the King of kings and Lord of lords! He is a mighty God!
Some other amazing things that the Lord did while we were there: a nurse must stay in Eric’s hospital room 24 hours a day (on shifts) to just monitor his heart, respiration, and all that. Several of them asked to participate with us in prayer. Isn’t that awesome! This stranger felt compelled to be a part of the changes the Lord was making in our family. The ER doctors and nurses who came by were all told of Eric’s decision to accept Christ into his life. The last sitter of the day on Sunday stood guard by the door to not allow any interruptions to take place. Isn’t it amazing how the Lord has orchestrated this whole situation, to not just touch our family’s lives by the lives of the staff at Duke.
We are just so blown away by the goodness of God! All praise and honor to Him! All glory to Him! Thank you, dear Jesus, for seeing fit to call this family back to yourself. Thank you for not giving up on them. Thank you for making yourself vulnerable to the rejection and knowing that there would be a day where they could no longer deny you. Father, we ask that you would continue to intercede on their behalf. To daily remind them that you are God, to encourage them as they begin this journey with You, to provide people to enter their lives who will be strong Christian influencers. Father I ask that you would remove any obstacles (whether people or things) that would hinder their walk with you. Father, thank you for choosing me, my mom, my aunt, and Shane as catalysts for change in Rich, Nancy, and Eric’s life. Thank you for trusting us with that mission. Help us to be diligent in encouraging them and supporting them. Lord thank you for their lives, and thank you for calling them back to You! Amen.
Update on Eric #3
Eric continues to improve. He’s still fully awake, responding, etc. He still does not remember anything about his suicide attempt. My mom, dad, myself and my aunt Paula are all leaving on Saturday morning around 6 am to head up to North Carolina. It’s about a 6 hour trip for us. I would ask that you still continue to diligently pray for Eric’s recovery. He has an extremely LONG road ahead of him. We still don’t know the extent of the brain damage or the physical damage done to his body.
My family and I feel strongly that the Lord is going to miraculously do some AMAZING things this weekend. I honestly believe that Rich, Nancy, and Paula will really be led into a real understanding about who the Lord really is. The Lord is using this tragedy to change their lives and to draw them to Himself. I feel confident that they are going to accept Christ this weekend. They’ve been running for a LONG time, and I believe that they will no longer be able to deny Him. All week (even before I found out about this) I have had many sleepless nights. The Lord has been constantly reminding me about reconciliation and sending me to verse after verse about this idea that you can be a murderer, a thief, a liar….and yet, if you come before the Lord and humbly ask Him to be the Savior of your life, even if it’s in your last breaths of life, He will respond, “Today you will be with me in paradise.” Reconciliation means no matter how far away you’ve strayed, no matter how many mistakes have been made, or how many times you’ve rejected the Lord…you simply have to ask the Lord to enter your life, He does so in a second! (Along that will come a need to repent of sin, but you get the point). The Lord desires relationship with us and doesn’t stop his pursuit of us. I believe that my aunts and uncle are ready. I think they finally understand how much they need the Lord. I don’t think Eric is ready yet. I feel like the Lord just simply wants to remind him that he is loved with an everlasting, amazing love. That he is of such great value, that his life is of great value. Do I have faith that, in time, Eric will come to know the Lord as his Savior…absolutely! He just needs to be reminded of who he is, not what he’s done.
So, please continue to pray for Eric’s physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual healing. Pray that any attacks from the Enemy would be cast straight back to the pit of hell. Pray for me and my parents as we attempt to minister to them. Please ask the Lord to give us wisdom and to speak out the words that they need to hear, to be bold enough to step out in faith and share with them their need for the Savior. Pray for our safety as we travel. And pray for their salvation. We have no hope outside of the Lord.
We plan to return on Sunday afternoon, so I will update on Monday. Again, your prayers are being heard and they are priceless! Keep it up, prayer warriors! With much love and appreciation…..
Update on Eric #2
HALLELUJAH!!! Eric is out of the coma!!! He is able to talk (to a degree), he is able to move, and react. He is still having major organ failure issues, so keep praying about this. This is such a huge answer to prayer! My parents, my other aunt, and myself will be heading up on Saturday morning to go and be with them for a few days. We feel like the Lord has called us in this time to really share the love of Jesus with them. We believe that they are ready to know Him personally and if we can be a vessell for that change in their lives, then we want to be used. So, please pray for Eric to continue to heal, and for us to be obedient. Keep praying! We definitely feel them! I’ll update again after we get back from NC. Much love to you!
Update on Eric
I just wanted to update all of you on my cousin, Eric’s condition. As of last night they were able to find out that this was the result of a suicide attempt. He took over 400 pills somewhere between 6:00 pm (when he last talked to his girlfriend) and 8:00 pm (when he was found). His brain scans showed that there was still a little activity, and when being prodded be stimulus his body would react (which is a good sign). Eric is still in a coma and his organs are still failing, in particular his kidneys. So, at this point, we are all just stuck in a waiting game.
Prayer directives: Most importantly, please pray for Eric’s spirit. It takes great desperation and pain to attempt suicide, I fear that Eric felt as though he had no other way out. I am asking you to pray that the Lord would speak words of truth and love into his spirit. Though his body is not awake, I am confident that his spirit is. I ask you to continue to pray that he would come out of this coma so that the doctors can find out what the extent of the damage is, but more importantly, that the Lord would use this situation to draw Eric and his family back to the Him. Pray for healing of Eric’s body and soul. Also, please pray for my family that we would discern when it would be best to head to NC to be with them. Thank you, my friends, for interceding and battling alongside us for Eric. Your prayers are being felt. I’ll continue to update as I get information.
Stop and Pray NOW
I am requesting that you guys take a few minutes out to pray for my cousin, Eric. He’s 32 and extremely healthy. Last night he was found collapsed on the floor, not breathing. The paramedics had to shock him 7 times in order to get a heartbeat. In the few moments he was awake before slipping into a coma he was convulsing with seizures. The brain scans show only a very slight activity and bleeding/swelling on his brain. His organs are shutting down. Life support and a respirator are the only things keeping him alive. As far as we know, Eric is not a believer.
Please pray that the Lord would radically touch Eric’s body. That he would be healed from what’s going on in his body. Pray for my aunt and uncle that they would understand that this is not a punishment from the Lord. That our God is good. Please pray that the Lord would give them peace and wisdom as to know how to proceed. And pray for my family, as we attempt to minister to them with the love of God. Thank you for interceding for my family, it means so much.
The Kingdom
Almost every child who has ever grown up in the church knows the Lord’s Prayer found in Matthew 6. In case you need refreshing, “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.” I’ve been camping out on the highlighted part of this verse for some time now. It’s been something that has perplexed me and enlightened me. Growing up in the church often led me to believe that the Kingdom was something to anticipate in the future. There was the end goal of salvation so that we could “go to heaven one day when we die”. Everything we were told to do was in anticipation of getting to heaven…living for the Great Tomorrow. The do’s and dont’s if you will. I’ve come to believe that that’s an awfully narrow view of the Kingdom of God. It makes God appear to be this vindictive judge/puppetmaster that is just waiting for us to screw us so he can enforce his judgment. Now our God surely is a righteous judge, but he’s also merciful and shows compassion to us.
Back to the point, the Kingdom of God is NOW, is present…not just in the future. Jesus didn’t come to this earth to prepare us to die, He came that we would know how to live! And not just to barely exist, but to live abundantly! Truly living as part of the Kingdom means choosing to take risks and to be ok with the appearance of being radical before the world! Why should it be so strange for spontaneous prayer and worship to break out outside of a church service? Why should it be odd to see people being healed from physical, emotional, mental, etc., strongholds? Why is it weird that we be a part of the community of Christ in the present, serving one another in love? We were created for community!!! This means being willing to give someone the food of your table and the shirt off your back, if only so that that person could better understand how much they are loved by their Creator. Sometimes this can look like other things, for example, randomly paying for the meal of another person in a restaurant you’re dining in, striking up a conversation with a stranger and praying over them…basically, being willing to pay attention to the people around you with the purpose of showing them love, kindness, compassion, and grace. Sometimes that looks like meeting a physical need, sometimes it’s ministering to a broken heart, sometimes it’s simply offering yourself up as someone to talk to.
“So don’t be so surprised when I tell you that you have to be ‘born from above’—out of this world, so to speak. You know well enough how the wind blows this way and that. You hear it rustling through the trees, but you have no idea where it comes from or where it’s headed next. That’s the way it is with everyone ‘born from above’ by the wind of God, the Spirit of God.” John 3: 7-8
“Just then his mother and brothers showed up. Standing outside, they relayed a message that they wanted a word with him. He was surrounded by the crowd when he was given the message, “Your mother and brothers and sisters are outside looking for you.”Jesus responded, “Who do you think are my mother and brothers?” Looking around, taking in everyone seated around him, he said, “Right here, right in front of you—my mother and my brothers. Obedience is thicker than blood. The person who obeys God’s will is my brother and sister and mother.” Mark 3:31-35
“Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.” Hebrews 11:1
So, what is the Kingdom? It’s simply a community of people who are daily following after the Lord and are seeking intimate relationship with Him. And the overflow of that intimacy would be poured out over all those they come in contact with: the vagabonds, the homeless, the rich, the poor, the outcasts, the popular. That this cell of people from all different walks of life would actively choose to change their lives and intercede for change in those they call family, friends, strangers, their cities, our world. Being part of the Kingdom is a choice to truly live, beyond what the world would say living is all about.
Even more exciting, CRCC is kicking off a new series on just this thought. So, if you live in Greenville or Simpsonville, come check us out.

De-constructing Me
I know it’s been quite awhile since I last had a “meaningful” post. Sorry ’bout that, my only excuse is…life happens.
In the last few weeks (and in particular this past week) the Lord has been radically changing my view on so many things. Some of the things I once whole-heartedly believed are now things I am starting to question. My ways of thinking have shifted. To steal a line from our Pastor, I am de-constructing me. To construct something literally means to put together. Over the course of a person’s life, the pieces of their experiences will ultimately form a unit, an identity, a theology…you get the point. And sometimes, after oh-so-carefully constructing these pieces, the Lord will turn around and ask you to tear it all apart. That’s where I have found myself lately. It’s an interesting place to be. One that is often confusing and sometimes frustrating, but one that I am really excited about exploring. I imagine myself like an architect. Here in front of me I have these beautifully laid out plans. Each space erected from the best creativity of my heart, each design a reflection on myself. I’ve laid the foundation on solid ground and over my 25 years have built many of the floors of my building and worked on crafting something wonderful on the interiors with bright colors and beautiful craftsmanship. And now, after reviewing these plans, find myself ripping things out and tearing parts of my building down.
It’s risky to de-construct something you thought was a pretty good thing. It’s daunting to step back and start ripping things apart that felt as though they were absolute truth. But at the same time, it’s wonderful that the Lord has been stirring something like this inside me. It’s risky for God to become involved with us. We have a tremendous capacity to reject Him. And yet, time and again, He’s there, wanting to be involved in our lives. And when we finally do, He completely turns our worlds upside down! Isn’t that great!? And hard?! I guess I have simply decided that if God is willing to risk himself by being vulnerable with me, why in the world can’t I take a risk and vulnerably accept what He’s asking me to do. Right now He’s asking me to reconsider and to de-construct my “faith”.
So, the de-constructing process has begun. The Lord has revealed some seeds of junk in my heart and mind that had started to take root and fester. I’ve plucked it out in confession and repentance before the Lord. I’ve purged this junk from my soul so that I can make room for the things of the Lord…so that I can literally hunger and thirst for righteousness. I’m ready for whatever the Lord would ask me to replace my “old” self with. And by-the-way, confession sometimes sucks. There’s often fear of rejection, shame, guilt, unforgiveness in return…but isn’t it amazing that when we come before the Lord honestly seeking forgiveness, He, in turn, offers freedom?! I love it! I feel free today. My prayer for intimacy with the Lord has taken root and is spreading like a flame throughout my entire being. My prayer for you is that you wouldn’t fight de-constructing yourself. Sometimes it’s hard, sometimes it’s risky, but it’s worth it, as we come into an authentic, genuine encounter with the Living God. I’m excited about what the Lord is stirring in myself, my church, my city. Keep praying, my friends, we’re about to see the Lord throw the floodgates wide! Better be prepared!
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Snow Days and New Bloggers
So, it officially snowed on Wednesday…it was so pretty. Seems like forever since I last saw snow. Although I must admit, I am not a fan of snow. I hate to be cold, I hate feeling frozen, I hate that it sticks to you until it melts and then you’re soaked. I like to see snow for a day and have it melt by the following day. And wouldn’t you know it…the weather cooperated! Snow on Wednesday night, ice by Thursday, pretty dry today. I LOVE IT! I also rather enjoyed my day off yesterday and the morning off today. But I’m back to the daily grind this afternoon!
Also, one of my good friends and the wife of our Worship Pastor, Lauren Walker, has started a blog. Go check her out here.
Finally got a PUPPY!
Today (among other things) marks 5 years of Hal and I being together as a couple. I got home for lunch today and Hal had a surprise waiting for me. Hal finally bit the bullet and bought me a PUPPY!!! Hal didn’t want to pay the $300 for a pet deposit, he didn’t want to clean up the poop and the mess a puppy can make. But he did it, just for me! YAY!!! He’s so cute! He’s white with black spots. He’s friendly and already does tricks! Any ideas for a name?!
Did I mention that it’s not exactly a real puppy…it’s a ROBOPET! It does all the same stuff. I can teach it to bark, to roll over, sit, come when I call him, lie down, play dead, he farts (without the smell…what a bonus!), he even lifts his leg to pee and makes the noise (which is hysterical), and squat without having to pick up warm poop! It’s awesome! I know it seems geeky, but I’m in love already. He even sits quietly in my lap…without shedding. The perfect puppy! My negotiation skills with Hal must be improving. Anyway, here’s a picture of the newest addition to the Weber household.






